Friday, October 1, 2010

Reception in the Entrance of the Life Institution

Text: 1 Corinthians 11:3
Godhead institution is equal in unity- marriage too.
Marriage is an institution in which a man loses his Bachelor's Degree and the woman gets her Master’s. Gen 3:16

The life institution is full of fun and fight, love and laugh, care and comfort, give and take, fast and pray, suffer and snug, in the course you will have your own indoor professors, than learn and teach

A marriage Institution ends when two people cease to care for each other. Mistakes in wedlock lead to deadlock in marriage.   

Married life is full of excitement and frustration:
- In the first year of marriage, the man speaks and the woman listens.
- In the second year, the woman speaks and the man listens.
- In the third year, they BOTH speak and the NEIGHBOURS listen.

Someone said, Marriage is not a word. It is a sentence (a life sentence!). There was a man who said, "I never knew what happiness was until I got married.... and then it was too late!"

Marriage institution is in essence the substantial union of two people and the maintenance of an oath that they will be next to each other in good and bad times.

  “Filter of logic”
1)      Verbal conversation and physical fellowship (Garden became wilderness) Rat and Trapper Box (Our big mouth and lack of Communication) Gen 3:8

Cool of the Day 3:8 speaking in right time, wrong things will become right and speaking in wrong time, right things will become wrong…

Discover new things about God together than you’ll discover new things about yourselves.

I heard that no man on the surface of the earth understood the women, because they are a ‘mystery’

Son: Is it true? Dad, I heard that in ancient China, a man doesn't know his wife until he marries. Father: That happens everywhere, son, EVERYWHERE!

I also heard, if it weren't for marriage, men would spend their lives thinking they had no faults at all.

2)      Look at the tip of the pole on the top of it
Bias decision of Eve brought ciaos to human race.

Marriage requires a man to prepare 4 types of "RINGS”:
- The Engagement Ring
- The Wedding Ring
- The Suffer-Ring
- The Endue-Ring

A man was speaking to God.
"God, why did you make women so beautiful?" he asked.
God said: "I did that to make you love them".
Then the man asked: "Well, God; why did you make them such good cooks?"
God said: "I did that to make you love them".
The man then asked: "But God, why did you make women so stupid?".
God said: "I did that to make them love you!”

“Let us make” Gen 1:26 “Jesus Prayed” Jn17:1

“The Holy Bible is the Manuel of Marriage, The text book of Marriage Institution, Refusing to follow it will end up in disastrous accidents.”

When your marriage life is tangled with problems go through the Bible first, while He unties it, you scream in pain to God.

Someone said, ‘I haven't spoken to my wife for eighteen months....I don't like to interrupt her…

Illus: Milk Water-fire=boil boil and extinguish.

Man you must have a deaf ear and woman you must have a blind eye to make allowance for each other in times of...

Look to Him and be radiant psalm 34:5

3)      Broken Eggshells
You are unique individual children of God who have decided to share a life together. God instituted marriage. No one knows better than He how to make it excellent.
“…unto Him who is able to keep you from falling and too present you faultless before the presence of His glory with exceeding joy”. (Jude 1:2425)

Love is one long sweet dream, and marriage is the alarm clock. A little boy asked his father, "Daddy, how much does it cost to get married?" And the father replied, "I don't know, son, I'm still paying for it."

1. The unconditional acceptance is the stable foundation in the marriage.
2. Forget the past-and try to praise your partner’s skills and capabilities.
3. Be careful on what you say-In your mouth is “life” and “death”
4. Be supportive in the difficult moments that will prove your love in intense.
5. Sex is good inside marriage but bad outside marriage so do feel uncomfortable with your partner.

1.      Be fair. You are not always correct because everybody makes mistakes.
2.      Do not promise anything you cannot do.
3.      Do not doubt each other.
4.      Compromise each other for good purpose.
5.      Respect to be respected inside as well as outside.
6.      Show you interest to your partner even in petty things.
7.      Be consistent with your promises and agreements.
8.      Be open for discussion with your partner and be friendly as God was with Adam and Eve.
9.      Make mutual decisions with your partner.
10.  Do not neglect your Partner-care for.
11.   Do not shout to each other unless the house is on fire.
12.  If someone must win a ‘fight’ then let the other win.
13.  Do not go to lawsuit for solution.
14.  Never go to be without being in terms with your partner.
15.  Do not repeat mistakes you made in the past because that will annoy.
16.  Try at least once a day to compliment your partner.
17.  If you make a mistake, be ready to admit it and apologize.
18.  It takes two to make a brawl, and usually the one that is wrong talks more.
19.  Showing first and then harvesting
20.   Free your partner from the feeling of failure.

Abel Amirtharaj (

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